AlfaDarling

Programs & Guides

Everything we publish for free is designed to help you think more clearly. Our paid programs are for when you want structure: a sequence, daily actions and something to follow.

A 30-day dating confidence and communication program

The Attraction Reset™

Thirty short daily lessons and thirty small actions that move you from over-analysing to deciding. Built for women who already know the theory and want a structure that changes what they actually do.

$37

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101 Messages for Real Dating Situations

The AlfaDarling Texting Playbook

A reference you open when you're staring at a blank message box. Every message is written to be honest and adaptable — not to manipulate anyone into replying.

$17

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In development

AlfaDarling Club

A membership for ongoing practice: monthly lessons, exercises, a dating journal and a growing texting library. Planned at $19/month. Not open for sign-up yet.

  • · Monthly lessons
  • · Interactive quizzes
  • · Dating journal
  • · Texting library
  • · Communication exercises
  • · Member-only articles
  • · Message suggestion assistant
  • · Progress tracking

In the works

Programs we're building next. They're listed here for transparency — none are available to buy yet.

  • Stop Chasing, Start Choosing

    A short course on ending over-pursuit for good.

  • The Breakup Reset

    A structured 30-day recovery program after a breakup.

  • From Dating to Commitment

    Moving a promising connection toward a real relationship.

  • Dating Confidence Reset

    Behavioural confidence practice for women re-entering dating.

  • Boundaries Without Guilt

    Setting and keeping limits in dating and relationships.

  • First Date Playbook

    Planning, questions and reading the first ninety minutes.

  • Dating App Profile Makeover

    A clearer profile that attracts the right conversations.

  • Relationship Communication Masterclass

    Repair, requests and hard conversations in depth.